Category: Divorce

The ups and downs in marriage are common things, often couples bicker until the problem becomes bigger and leads to divorce. However, before deciding to get a divorce, it’s good to seek advice from a marriage therapist first.

Aaron Anderson, a marriage and family therapist said, many married couples have come to see him. They usually feel frustrated and want advice from Aaron as soon as possible to overcome household problems.

“They usually have problems for years, and try to fight themselves to deal with it,” said Aaron as quoted by the Huffington Post.

“They have had a bad marriage, and feel that they have reached the limit of patience that came to see me,” Aaron added.

Aaron is a director at The Marriage and Family Clinic, a wedding consultation place located in Denver, Colorado. Aaron and his fellow marriage counselors provide advice that can be used as a …

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The Landscape of Divorce

Divorce is a multifaceted and intricate journey that countless individuals navigate in America. In this exploration, we delve into the diverse facets of divorce, examining both the legal and emotional dimensions that define the landscape of separation.

Divorce in America

1. Legal Complexities and Marital Dissolution

Divorce proceedings in America involve a myriad of legal intricacies, encompassing terms such as “irreconcilable differences” and “grounds for divorce.” Each state may have its own set of laws governing the dissolution of marriages, contributing to the complex tapestry of the legal landscape.

Spousal support, also known as “alimony,” and the equitable division of assets further complicate the process, requiring legal expertise to navigate the intricate negotiations that often accompany the end of a marriage.

2. Custody Battles and Parenting Plans

For couples with children, divorce introduces a realm of complexities related to child custody and parenting plans. Legal jargon such as “joint …

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The first time meeting with a divorce lawyer can feel stressful. In my 34 years of practicing law, I can say that when I meet a client for the first time, though each situation is unique, the client is almost always feeling common emotions. These can include: sadness, anger, fear, and of course, confusion. There are so many questions to ask a divorce lawyer, and sometimes, clients don’t even know what to ask!

It is important to ask a lot of questions and to ask the right questions, so that you hire an attorney you feel you can trust, who you feel comfortable with, and who you think will get you the best outcome possible.

If you are considering or planning on meeting with a divorce attorney, I think I can help make the meeting more productive by offering:

10 Questions to Ask a Divorce Lawyer at Your First Meeting

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Several years ago, one of my best girlfriends called me. Through tears, she said, “My husband left me for another woman.” It was horrible. I could not have felt worse for her.

She had been happily married (or so she thought) for over two decades, and was unearthed by her husband asking for a divorce, and then marrying the woman he was cheating with, just days after their divorce was final.

It was a tough road for my friend. I watched her go from rock bottom at day one, trying to absorb the shock, through all the phases. They included tears, depression, furry, fear, bad dates, confusion. Where is she now? She is a happy, healthy beautiful, successful person who is very much in love with a great guy.

Now, what about her ex?

Here is where I think any woman who experiences “My husband left me for another woman”

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We all know how complicated dating can be, especially in the age of technology. It seems like everyone is always on their phone and it’s tough to connect with someone and build a relationship. That leads us to dating rules. They help you stay on track and protect you from people who might not have your best interests at heart. When you follow the dating rules, it becomes much easier to find a partner.

Your dating rules should be personal to you and what you want out of a relationship. These guidelines will assist you in weeding out one-sided or toxic relationships so that you don’t waste your time on them. Remember that the rules you find most difficult to follow are often the most important, so don’t ignore them just because they’re tough. 

Install Trusted Dating Apps on Your Phone

If you’re single, installing a trusted dating app

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Loneliness might be the most painful emotion a person can have. It can feel empty and scary and sad and unfair. Being lonely can make a person feel sorry for him or herself. It can make a person feel angry, like “Why me?” It can make someone feel unworthy of love, or like maybe they shouldn’t have gotten divorced. But however you are feeling about loneliness, it’s really, really hard. I want to talk specifically about loneliness after divorce.

A lot of people getting divorced and feeling loneliness after divorce ask, “Will I survive?” My answer is 100% absolutely yes!!

Before I get into how, I want to talk about loneliness, in general. A lot of people going through a divorce look at their married friends and think, ‘I wish I had a marriage like hers,’ or ‘How are they able to make things work and I couldn’t?’

Here’s how

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