Are you looking for peace after divorce? Of course you are! Who wouldn’t be? So why do some people achieve peace after divorce and some people stay stuck in a place of frustration, anger, bitterness; in a state of war, with others and with themselves? In my opinion, the different lies in one word:
Self-awareness.
Ask someone why he orshe got divorced, and typically you’ll get one of these kinds of answers:
My husband left me.
My wife cheated.
My husband’s an asshole.
My wife’s a bitch.
We grew apart.
We were really unhappy.
We never loved each other.
How long do you have?
While I’m not judging anyone for what he or she wants to say or remember in their mind about why they got divorced, I think there are some divorced people who have an edge– they have something that helps them achieve peace after divorce